Has this or does this happen to you?

wow, sounds like the bride has issues and is trying to control you by being pive/aggressive. If she is a friend of yours, ask her to go shopping with you to help ick the stuff out, then ask which one she likes the best and choose that way, especially if she is paying for them. If she isnt a friend of yours, just get what you want and tell her "well, you said to get what I want."